Ambitious? Be Ready For A Tough Life

Life for ambitious people is tough. “Sapne haarne nahi dete, aur duniya haraane mein koi kasar nahin rakhti.” Bollywood is just one example but nepotism in various forms exists everywhere. When you choose the battle, facing nepotism, regionalism, nationalism, is all a reality and you will have to fight your … Read More →

Intelligence? Anyone?

Where does ‘Intelligence’ come from? IQ, EQ or whatever is always a product of a process that people believe and follow for a long time. They may be aware or unaware of the process itself. They may be following it with a lot of attention or it may be happening … Read More →

Breaks? Useful?

I was stuck on something since yesterday. Had tried many options but none worked. Plus, I had only a very few levers to play with. After banging my head for quite some time on that task, I left it and moved on to the next one. Picked it up today … Read More →

Context is Critical

Every quality you may think of is a ‘quality’ within a context. In a different context, the same ‘quality’ becomes a hindrance. So Context is Critical. When it’s time for Action, being patient is detrimental. When the tide is high and it’s time to wait, unnecessary heroic action will lead … Read More →

Mentors – One or Many?

Should you have many mentors or one? I was in the US and was bored with the food I had been eating. So, I wanted to make ‘Rajma’ one day. Youtube recipes weren’t popular in those days. I called my mother in India and she gave me instructions to soak … Read More →