Know your worth

Knowing your worth as a woman

Do you believe in yourself? That’s a pretty loaded question, isn’t it? Women often doubt their deservingness because people don’t appreciate them as frequently as they do men, does that make women any less deserving? Knowing your worth as a woman is important in today’s society.

The answer is NO…but as we say as humans, that appreciation gives you a boost and pushes you to believe more in your potential.

Don’t Doubt your Deservingness

When you doubt your deservingness, and your worth, what you’re really uncertain about is whether or not you measure up. Are you good enough? You’ve made some pretty big mistakes in life.

Do those bad blunders make you a bad person and you don’t deserve any good now? Is your one mistake enough to ruin all your life? (NO) Are you a good enough person to deserve good things?

Many women carry around a secret shame that impacts their feelings of self-worth and deservingness. Our stories are individual, but our core experiences are very much the same.

At some point in your life, someone told you there was something wrong with you. This is inevitable, of course, because there’s something wrong with all of us.

As Nobody’s Perfect-says my favorite Hannah Montana 🙂

It gets too dangerous and disempowering when you yourself and others point your capabilities. If even one person in your life tells you over and over again that there’s something wrong with you.

To achieve anything and you haven’t done anything appreciable enough for people to praise you, well, you can start to believe them.

Being rejected or criticized hurts and it has a cumulative effect that then makes us doubt our own worth. This makes us feel what people think about us.

Imagine every criticism you’ve ever received gives you a tiny little scar, now thin how much time you have been hurt, this scar multiplies exponentially and amplifies your pain Seriously bad thing to talk about, right?

Beyond hurting like hell, a heart full of scars holds you back and makes you play small in your life just by some stupid people’s assumptions for you.

In life, you always create the results you believe you deserve. If you don’t believe you deserve good things, you won’t let yourself have them.-anonymous

You’ll sabotage, procrastinate, and excuse the good right out of your life if you don’t believe you deserve it.

Happily, you can raise your sense of deservingness, and deepen your feelings of personal worth.

Stand up for yourself.

Start by catching yourself in the act of playing the earner. What and who triggers the earner response in you? What are you afraid of? What are you trying to prove?

If you feel drained or bad about yourself after you’re with a specific person or in a certain place, you need to think twice about being with that person or at that place.

I know this is easier said than done. It’s possible the people who make you feel bad are co-workers or family members. It’s not like you can just stop seeing them, right?

When you find yourself in this position, there is only one path. You need to learn to speak up for yourself, just lift yourself up in every possible way. You are no less.

Will you be uncomfortable? Yep. You will. Can you handle it? Yes. You can. Be willing to be uncomfortable. Speak up for yourself. Stand up for yourself. Stop accepting anything less than you deserve.

Every time you speak up for yourself (even in the simplest of circumstances) you wipe off the scar from your heart, you raise your sense of deservingness from the within as well as from people around you, and you deepen your own sense of worth and you know it feels heavenly.

Show other women what it looks like knowing your worth as a woman, you inspire them, you fill them with the opportunity to overcome their stagnation and evolve with the changing world. Which encourages them to do it too.

Trust me you are good, and you deserve good things, don’t let people’s thoughts about you be the hurdle. You deserve acceptance, respect, belonging in this world, and love from all for what you are unless you follow the right path.

Its time knowing your worth as a woman!!!

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